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TRAINING NLP  by

 Nigel T Holland 		10/6/2008 at 08:37
You have no idea yet but NLP training provides the skills to define and achieve anything you want in any given situation.

Imagine being a soccer player you don’t know it yet but at least 50% of playing soccer is mental discipline. Imagine what it would be like if you never felt the felling of hitting the wall and every ball you touched you just KNEW would go where you wanted it.

Okay you are probably wondering how you get to this Holy Grail. Well the fact is you probably have already experienced it at times in your life. Do you remember a time when you scored that perfect goal or made the perfect tackle. This is the mental state I am talking about.

Picture yourself being able to do that 100% of the time every time. This mental state can be achieved by anyone.

I used the above as an example of how the NLP techniques can be applied to a sporting situation as sports people place themselves in very high stress and emotional situations. Great sports people control this to their advantage.

Imagine, for a moment, that it’s a month from today and you are meeting your boss for that all important pay rise or promotion. Think how you would approach that now and take a look at this.

The Job Interview

By Benjamin Strackany. Mindlist:

""You know, one of the big things I know everyone’s looking for is good rapport, and I’m looking for it too, because while someone might look ...
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NLP - MATCHING AND MIRRORING IN RAPPORT BUILDING  by

 Gloria Hamilten 		10/6/2008 at 08:36
Matching and mirroring what someone is doing or the style of language a person uses is a very powerful but subtle way to build rapport.

Remember, that when NLP is used with integrity, any of the techniques or skills is based on a positive final outcome.

There is no manipulation, nor is there ever a self-interest motive.

When discussing matching and mirroring the person with whom you are communicating, you are aiming at creating a deep, unconscious rapport with that person for a win-win situation unencumbered by self-interest.

You may match and mirror another person’s

• body posture
• head tilt
• gestures
• speaking volume
• speaking speed
• or any other individual way of communicating the person has

This is merely to show empathy; it is a form of respect and acknowledgment of that person’s style of communicating.

It is an indication that you care enough about that person to communicate in what is acceptable and comfortable to her or him.

Initially, this type of rapport is done consciously, as is anything that is in the learning process.

If you match and mirror with the wrong intent, the other person will quickly see what you are doing, and then there is no chance of building a rapport.

But if you match and mirror with the pure intent of wanting to make the other person feel comfortable, that is exactly what will happen.

You will both get on as though you have been old friends, and the communication will be seamless.

Matching is doing something the other person is doing, but in reverse image, that is ...
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NLP COACHING TIPS  by

 Linda Ferguson 		10/6/2008 at 08:36
These are some of the basic assumptions that support all NLP practices. When you work from these assumptions, you will inevitably become more effective and enjoy coaching more.

1. People are good at change (it happens all the time).
2. Everyone functions perfectly. Every result that we get (whether we like it or not) results from a series of choices and behaviours that we make. Every result that we get more than once has benefits to us or we would not repeat the choices that led to it.
3. Performance depends on state. State is the sum total of a person’s experience at one moment in time including thought, physical sensation and physiology, and emotions. Simple changes in posture, breathing or movement can change state (and results).
4. The human mind is equipped to fill in missing information. When we assume that success will happen, our minds look for the missing information that is necessary to make that success happen.
5. The meaning of communication is the feedback it gets. If you are not getting the results you want, change your state, strategy or communication style.

Here are five tips for coaching sessions based on these basic presuppositions:

1. Use language that assumes the change that the person you are coaching wants. e.g. When you are able to. . . After you have achieved. . .
2. Locate the benefit in behaviours. ...
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COMPULSIVE SPENDING - IT IS A DISORDER  by

 Shanat Kuphur 		3/20/2008 at 09:05
Human beings are highly governed by emotions at times. This is because their emotions rule their intelligence and they blindly follow these emotions. The loss of success in life of many people is due to this over riding of emotions. They start finding refuge in certain habits that they declare as their hobbies. One such habit that comes as a result of depression is compulsive spending.

Compulsive spending can be identified in people who spend a lot without any major reason. These people always justify their needs and start spending a lot on their shopping. They themselves understand that there is no particular need of that shopping.

Compulsive spending comes as a habit in people when they are having some personal egos. They start taking something that can put them up in front of others. There are people who go for compulsive spending when they are really worried or are under depression.

When people realize that they have compulsive spending disorder, they will quarrel with others. This arises out of a guilty feeling. They shout at others when they start speaking about the bad effects of compulsive spending. They feel so much ashamed when they think that they don’t have a credit card.

Compulsive spending disorder is mostly a refuge for people to shelter when they feel guilty of their mistakes. People go for a shopping when they feel that they have nothing to be proud of. They will continue the shopping till their money runs out.

In today’s world all that matters is wealth. ...
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ON FEAR  by

 Michael Neill 		3/20/2008 at 09:05
Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain.

Frank Herbert, from Dune

In 1997, I appeared on a TV program in the UK called "Put it to the Test". My challenge was to put the NLP Fast Phobia Cure to the test on national television. Three arachnophobics joined me in studio, hooked up to EEG and EKG machines by electrodes and monitored by two medical doctors. During the show they were shown a clear container which contained several tarantulas, and sudden increases in heart rate variability and electrical activity in the brain spiked off the monitors. I worked with them for approximately 30 minutes, at which point they were returned to studio, re-connected to the equipment, and once again exposed to the tarantulas. This time, their heart rate and brain activity remained near normal, even when the spiders were brought directly in front of their faces.

Despite the medical doctor’s amazement at the results, I wasn’t particularly surprised (relieved, yes! As I had seen the technique work hundreds of times before. What I found most interesting about the day happened before we began filming.

A few hours before we were due to go before the cameras, the volunteers were hooked up to the monitors for ...
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HOW YOU SHOULD ALWAYS START LEARNING NLP  by

 Steve Bauer 		3/20/2008 at 09:04
So you’ve seen someone performing a rapid-change technique designed by a practicioner of NLP. Or, a friend of yours told you of this incredible seminar he just came back from where a master of NLP was removing everyone’s limitations. And now you’re incredibly curious to learn how to do it yourself.

OK. What to do now?

The first and absolute most important thing you can do is to witness applications of NLP in action. Go to an introductory seminar, find a practicioner in your area and go in for a session. One way or another, you have to feel it first.

That’s where it begins.

"OK Steve, I’m done. I’ve already seen a prac. in action. What next?"

In the next step of your learning, you’ll want to understand the basic framework of NLP, which consists in the three following pieces:

1. Learn the NLP epistemology. The first thing you must know and master is how people build their model of the world. That’s pretty much what "epistemology" means: how we know what we know. That comes before anything else. The only source I’ve found that attempts to describe and explain it is the book "Whispering In The Wind" by John Grinder. And it’s not learner-friendly. Fortunately, I devote tons of time and space to this in my upcoming course, Learning and Mastering NLP.

2. Learn how to map people’s model of the world. It’s one thing to know how people build their model of the world. It’s quite another to ...
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NLP TRAINING & YOU - DISCUSSING THE BENEFITS  by

 Terry Elston 		3/20/2008 at 09:04
NLP, an acronym for Neuro Linguistic Programming, is a methodology to understand and prepare our brain in such a way that it enables us to change our behavior, feelings or thought problems to our advantage. It has become a powerful tool that benefits those people who are seeking self-improvement and growth in their lives. This methodology gets used effectively in various areas such as business, building relationship, career development, counseling and personality development. These methods can be used individually or in groups.

Neuro Linguistic Programming was first created in the early seventies by John Grinder, an assistant professor of linguistics, and Richard Bandler, a student of psychology. As a program of self development, NLP was meant for modeling human behavior. It was resulted from deep research on the relationship based on apparent patterns of human activities, linguistics and neurology.

To reproduce diverse forms of human interaction such as relationship, behavioral pattern, motivation, memory and communication - is the chief aim of NLP. The people who want to improve communication skills and desire to know as to how brain works, NLP training will benefit them greatly.

The people who are into sales and marketing, management and presentation, performance, training and coaching, negotiation and meditation can get great help from NLP training. The function of NLP is to observe how our brain works. In our brain some neurological patterns of whatever we do gets recorded. As we repeat the same thing over and again that becomes our habit and that is reflected in our behavior ...
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THE KEY TO NLP’S SUCCESS  by

 Gareth Owen 		3/20/2008 at 09:03
NLP is a set of methods that have been refined and tested over the last twenty years with hundreds of thousands of patients in many countries.

What this means in simple terms is that our brain is nothing short of the most advanced and sophisticated computer in the world. And like computers that have programmes for it to do job’s like word processing or spreadsheets and emailing, we have internal programmes running in our brain in a similar way.

In our case, once we learn something like driving a car for instance it is stored as a set of programmes in our brain and the next time we need to go through a similar process it fires off. For instance when you are driving a car now you are not so conscious about the whole processes of driving as you were when you first started learning its just second nature to you now. Even the small things we take for granted like brushing our teeth, getting dressed, speaking, walking and just about every activity we don’t have to think about consciously are a set of programmes running in our subconscious mind.

Luckily for us we have these programmes running in the background for us. Imagine the chaos our lives would be in if every time we approached a door we had to stop, think and work out how to open the door. Can you see how everyone’s lives would be complete mess if for a small task like opening a door we had ...
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IMPROVE YOUR PERSUASION POWER USING NLP  by

 Shezz P 		1/15/2008 at 16:01
Many people would just love to be more persuasive but just don’t really have any idea how to be. You need to ask yourself what is your intention? Your intent directs the flow of energy in your interaction with others so don’t you think it makes sense to have in your mind a very clear and strong intent before engaging in your persuasion mission?

Think about the person that you will be attempting to persuade and try to think of how your persuasion will benefit them. Your persuasion efforts will be more effective if you make it clear what their benefits will be from the situation.

Try to put yourself in their shoes and think of what benefits you can see looking at it from their angle. Also try and look at the situation from an independent view as this can also make you aware of other ideas and benefits.

It pays to have an idea of what the other person wants and keep the positive intention nice and strong in mind when interacting with the person. This will automatically create a good vibe between you and therefore create the well known fundamental persuasion skill - rapport.

During your interaction with the other person make sure you ask well focused questions as this will increase your persuasion parlance. You will want to ask questions that will get the person to open up so that you can discover one of the very powerful motivators known as values.

This is an interesting aspect of how the human ...
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ARE YOU AT CAUSE OR EFFECT?  by

 Catherine Jackson 		1/15/2008 at 15:59
Do you live your life at cause or effect? Would you like to know more about this important distinction? Rarely do individuals always live their lives totally at cause, however, far too many of us spend too much time being at the effects side of life, responding to other’s emotional states, desires or impulses.

To be at cause means that you take responsibility for decisively creating what you want in your life and then from that what you achieve or will achieve as a result. You view the world as a place of opportunities and move towards what you want. If things don’t pan out as you would like, you take action and explore other possibilities. To be at cause means that you know you have choices, in what you do and how you react to other people and events

The flip side of the coin is be at the effect. Where you blame other people or circumstances for your bad mood, for what you didn’t achieve or just life in general. At the effect side of life you are powerless and depend on others to feel good. "If only my wife understood me or knew what was best for me then my life would be great". If you wait or hope that things will be different or that other people will provide that for you, then you are at the effect and a victim of circumstance. And really, how much fun is that? And how much fun do you think it ...
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3 TIPS FOR MORE EFFECTIVE VISUALIZATION  by

 Steve Bauer 		1/15/2008 at 15:56
Anyone who learns NLP and pretends to master NLP must learn and master visualization. In NLP, we often refer to visualization as hallucination, which simply means to attend to inner experience as opposed to outer experience. You’ll also hear the terms "uptime" and "downtime" referring to the same phenomenon. "Uptime" means attending to outer experience and "downtime" means attending to inner experience.

So let’s go to our tips. But before we do, you must know two things. First, it’s important for you to master visualization for your own purposes, or self-improvement. It will also be important when you begin to model experts more closely and have to create representational models identical to theirs. Secondly, mastering visualization will enable you to effectively guide someone else to a specific representation or model.

So here are our 3 tips for more effective visualization:

1. Enrich your sensory experience. The term "visualization" points directly to the visual system and can mislead us into thinking visualization is exclusively a visual ordeal. When you hallucinate, to use our NLP term, include as many sensory representations as possible. Include sounds, such as voices, environmental sounds and others. Include hallucinatory physical sensations, such as temperature, touches and others. Also include tastes and smells whenever possible. When you do so, you’ll find that your visualization will have a much more potent emotional effect on you.

2. Involve movement. When appropriate, use your physiology to express with your body what you’re visualizing. If you’re imagining yourself running, it will be more effective if you ...
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4 NLP LESSONS YOU CAN LEARN FROM ANTHONY ROBBINS  by

 Steve Bauer 		1/15/2008 at 15:55
Anthony Robbins has introduced more people to NLP than anyone else I can think of. And while many practicioners of NLP frequently dismiss him as being no more than a showman, a businessman or a "disco" NLPer, we can still learn much from him. I for one have participated in almost all of his trainings, for reasons I’ll explain in greater details in this article.

1. Model. Anthony Robbins achieved what he achieved because he understood and practices constantly the first directive of NLP, which I’ve discussed at length in another article: the core discipline of NLP is modeling. In an interview, John Grinder retells of the days when Anthony Robbins was his student. He recounts that once the seminar ended, Tony approached him and said he understood that modeling lied at the heart of NLP and that he was committed to modeling. He then asked Grinder what project he could undertake to prove his commitment. John Grinder suggested firewalking. "The rest," as Grinder puts it, "is history." Anthony Robbins is primarily a modeler and you must adopt this identity.

2. Do what works. In his seminars, Anthony Robbins amply demonstrates his change techniques. The advanced student of NLP can distinguish therapeutic patterns that NLP has coded in his interventions, but also some different patterns that he created or incorporated from other fields into his work. The most important trait that he demonstrates during his intervention is his absolute commitment to getting the result that he’s after, notably to move another human ...
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