It’s Not What You Do, It’s Who You Are That Countsby Michael Noone 5/6/2012 For many people any chances of improving their circumstances are doomed before they even begin. It is not that their challenge is necessarily any more difficult than some one else’s. It is not that the world is against them or that they don’t have the resources. It is often the simple matter of their mindset. As Henry Ford once famously remarked "Whether you believe you can or whether you believe you can’t, you’re right". Mr Ford had already discovered the importance of mindset in getting the results you want from life and there are things we can all learn from his story. Henry Ford had a vision, a dream of building automobiles on a production line in the same way that cattle were processed in a meat packing plant. The work would come to the operative who would perform the same task over and over again, on each automobile that came to him. By so doing he would become an expert at the task and as a result be extremely efficient at it. There was a problem with Henry Ford’s dream though. When he approached the banks for finance to start his business he was told. "Henry, it’s just a fad these horseless carriages and it won’t last. I can’t risk the banks money on such frivolity" Henry Ford had done his homework though and foresaw the age of the motor car. He believed he could and he persisted until he succeeded. Today the Ford Motor Company has produced millions ... |
How To Fight Your Fears And Defeat Themby Roseanna Leaton 5/6/2012 Fears should be treated with respect. Your mind triggers the emotion of fear as a means of alerting you to protect yourself from perceived and potential danger. However, just because your mind has detected what it thinks might be a potential danger, this does not mean that this danger is real. Sometimes our minds act over-zealously when focused upon self-protection. In view of this, many fears may be rationalized and released, purely by stepping back and looking at matters from a different angle. In many cases you will be aware that you are experiencing the effects of fear in a situation that you consciously know should not be triggering this automatic response. For example, you might be afraid of having an injection or vaccination. You might get really anxious about taking exams or a driving test. You might be afraid of heights or of flying. Rationally, you know you shouldn’t on balance be afraid...but you are afraid, or even terrified. You will also know that no matter how much you try to rationalize your fears you cannot seem to get your mind around these feelings. To enable you to step back and release your mental grip upon your fear, hypnosis is extremely ... |
3 NLP Mind Control Techniques That Work Like Magicby Michael Lee 9/17/2010 First of all, NLP stands for neuro-linguistic programming. From the term itself, you can already deduce that NLP has something to do with communicating with a person’s mind. The concept is accredited to a computer scientist and Gestalt therapist named Richard Bandler and a linguist and therapist named Dr. John Grinder. In studying some of the world’s top therapists, Bandler and Grinder were able to discover the power of NLP mind control techniques - processes that were extremely useful in areas of self-development and improving inter-personal relations among others. To learn more about these methods, read on! NLP Mind Control Technique # 1: Change The Physiology One of the most important principles of NLP is that the mind and body are intertwined. What you think and feel are reflected in the way you move (or don’t move). Likewise, how your body moves also affects your thoughts. If you want to change the way you think, then start with your physiology. For example, if you want to exude confidence, then why don’t you stand a little taller and sit a little straighter? Smile confidently at the people around you even though you’re not exactly feeling brave. These slight changes will worm its way into your subconscious; and soon, you’ll be feeling confident for real. NLP Mind Control Technique # 2: Word Emphasis Emphasizing key ... |
Control Your Dreams and Work Through Your Issuesby Cas Willow 9/17/2010 Research over the years has shown that we all have the inclination to daydream every day on an average of 80-120 minutes a day. When people day dream their mind goes into an altered state of consciousness, just slightly and gently even though you are awake. You are truly awake yet feel like you are in a different space. A space that feels disconnected to the reality of the world you may be in at the time in a superior way. Remember as a child we would play and make believe that the world was a different place perhaps filled with fairies and heroes. As we grow up we tend to lose such fantasies because it’s often deemed as childlike. So we use a day dream to visit that fantasy world and enjoy the moments in time in a natural and empowering way. Often we love that moment of peace and fantasy, so much so, when the time to come back to reality is called the mind can have a sense of resistance. Hypnotherapy can help you develop the art of daydreaming into something active and profound that can help you relax and bring calmness both to the mind and the body. Active Lucid Dreams I want to talk to you also about Lucid dreams. We all have them and experience something different from each and every one. You may be in a dream enjoying every moment or not then realising that you are dreaming whilst you are in the dream. ... |
NLP Communication Modelby David Green 9/17/2010 The quality of your communication IS the quality of your life... We are emotional beings whose entire understanding of the world around us and our own unique part in it comes from information that has entered our brain through five highly sophisticated and yet limited senses organs or senses. We gather information from the outside world through our senses of sight, which in NLP we refer to as Visual (sight and images), Auditory (sound), Kinaesthetic (feelings, sensation and touch), Olfactory (smell) and Gustatory (taste). Our neurological mechanism constructs reality from what we receive and perceive both inwardly (from our own thoughts, feelings, emotions, etc.) and outwardly from information received through our five senses from the world around us). In NLP we refer to the use of these senses as Representational Systems or the systems through which we re-present or represent the world as we perceive it.. In other words we use our senses to literally re-construct an internal mental model or ’map’ of the world inside our head. We use this ’map’ as our frame of reference on all aspects of our experience of living; past, present, and even future. Our senses are the frequencies through which we receive information about every aspect of the world outside of our own mind and body. In most cases our senses receive information accurately and with some considerable precision and yet our perception is often different, tainted and distorted. The challenge lies not in what we receive but in what happens to the information once we receive it. ... |
Neurolinguistic, A Help To Your Mindby John James Santangelo 9/17/2010 Imagine how large your brain is and its multiple encounters with different thoughts a day. You brain is opt for a breakdown even if you don’t like it when it has already reached its limit. Whether affirmations or criticisms are being said, our brains retain it. The only difference is criticisms tend to last longer and irks our esteem. It severely affects our performance in our daily lives and as a result, we fail. Each one of us experience adrenaline rush when you like something and that adrenaline deprecating when someone said you are not good enough. Some strive to be better but some falls down together with their ambition. Word is a powerful tool that we can use either to uplift or crash our own and someone else’s spirit. If yours has been crashed down, now is the time to regain it. In terms of Neurolinguistic, the only use of language is to infuse positive thoughts into a person’s mind. Neurolinguistic aims to change the scheme of a person’s behavior. It could help a person to make out of his/her potential and show to the world that he/she can take on anything. Basically, the scope of the program is to study the person’s behavior and reprogram it through contacting the brain. This kind of approach is sometimes called as the "science of excellence" because of appropriate treatment for main dilemmas such as phobias, disorders and the likes. These problems impede the maturity of a person in a sense that they ... |
NLP Patternsby John James Santangelo 9/6/2010 The links between the neurological and the psychological activities are researched by NLP practitioners over thirty years. During doing this research they found some approaches and some tools which are used to create some model. The modeling is based on the perspective situation and the position of the person in that situation. Suppose you are at an auditorium, a great speaker appeared and you enjoy his presentation. Then you may ask how you attend the presentation, what was the speaker’s behavior, how he managed the time, questions, information, attention, how he handled the question and answer part of speech. Those questions are able to find the quality or excellence of his presentation skills. Now you can know the thinking, feeling, seeing and hearing of the speaker by talking to him. You need to put this information and then you will able to construct a model of being a great presenter. For constructing a model you needed to make a series, where information is all together in a sequence. Actually you are using patterns to form a model. These behavioral patterns are making him motivational presenter. The NLP patterns are termed after the models come from where, when, how and what of the situational behaviors. These are found by the experienced practitioners. As an example, which ... |
NLP Training Can Boost Your Career and Personal Lifeby Zed Crawshaw 9/6/2010 NLP training is essential if you want to learn how people live their lives, how they behave and how they deal with each other. NLP training is a powerful way of opening new possibilities for advancing your career and improving your relationships. An NLP course examines the relationship between how we think, how we speak, and what we’ve learnt from experience. NLP is great for personal improvement and teaches folk to think and speak more clearly and improve their behavior. Anybody can try NLP. It’s useful for improving personal or professional management and communication skills. NLP helps you break bad habits and implement better ones through a clearer understanding of how and why we do and say certain things. From a professional point of view, you’ll learn to become a better boss, teacher, leader or team-member. NLP courses are designed to give you a clear understanding about why you act the way you do. It helps you assess whether you really need what you think you need, or whether the way you respond to certain situations is necessarily the best way. Once you know this, you can start to implement a more effective way of operating, both in your professional and private life. You’ll find that the people you interact with on a daily basis will respond to you better and you’ll be making quick headway in being a better lover, manager or employee. You should think about studying Neurolinguistic programming if you’re interested at all in self development, personal improvement or psychology. It’s ... |
Techniques You Can Use to Become a Better Personby Ray Whitely 9/6/2010 Some Facts And Benefits of Self-Hypnosis Most people are apprehensive when they hear the word hypnosis. Contrary to popular believe, hypnosis can and will help you lead a fantastic live as long as you know how to apply it to correct problem areas in your life. So, I urge you to set aside any negative notions you have about it. Conventional hypnosis does not involve brainwashing or making you do things against your will. It involves permitting positive thoughts to over take the negative thoughts in your subconscious. Your life reflects what you think about and if you can change your thoughts to be more positive, your life will vastly improve. You can find online variety of ways to do hypnosis, but i will keep it simple and give your the true fundamentals of what you need to do to achieve miraculous results. Some of the tools you can use to help enhance self hypnosis are: Self hypnosis materials in either as an MP3s or CDs Some self hypnosis materials come in video recordings with clear detailed instructions Now, identify a specific area in your life you want to correct. Sit in a comfortable chair or laying down and play your CD or MP3 Hypnosis Techniques recording that deals with that specific area in your life (for example Confidence). You must relax and just go along with the instructions. Repetition is the key to getting fast results. To enhance your results you need to practice affirmations. This can be words, sounds or images and the meanings will ... |
Using Body Language to Build Rapport - Mirroringby Jimmy Mcintyre 11/22/2009 Despite rapport being a very straightforward process many people still fail at it and for those who do it well the rewards can be life changing. Fortunately, with regular practice those who currently struggle at building relationships can find themselves creating rapport with far greater ease in a short space of time. The trick lies in Hypnotic Communication. Research at a macro level (sociological) and micro level (psychological)has shown that we are drawn to people who are either similar to ourselves or who we consider to be very dynamic. We feel comfortable around familiarity, so if someone is reflecting back to us behaviours we ordinarily use we will subconsciously feel far more comfortable around them. Have you ever noticed how close friends talk the same way with the same inflections and word usage? Even more extraordinary, there is a process called ’synchronous menstruation’ where menstruation cycles of women who live together long enough tend to become synchronised. I know a girl who lived with a few other girls at college who experienced this. Therefore, in order to build rapport you must copy, as subtly as possible, the rhythms of behaviours another person exhibits. As the person leans forward in their seat you lean forward a few seconds later, as they take a drink you take a drink, and then watch as they follow when you lean out again. Before you say it; no - you wont get caught. You do it all the time with the people you are close to, the ... |
Is NLP a Valid Business Tool?by Rex Truman 11/22/2009 Personal development or self help is a big business these days. There are dozens of books about how you can improve yourself or become a successful businessman, and there are also lots about marketing with new methods. Most of these methods involve a lot of self-assessment, and setting targets. There are the Chicken Soup series of books, and a whole lot more. Among the methods that has been in use for 30 years is NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming), which can help improve communication and other skills. One of the biggest problems with NLP is the strange name. Maybe they would have done better to call it the Grinder-Brandler method in the same way as the Briggs-Myers Personality typing method was named after its originators. The fact is though that NLP business trainingis used by many companies to improve performance, although there is no scientific proof that it works. This is because it has never been submitted to analytical scientific testing. If you are thinking of trying NLP, you need to do your homework before doing any NLP workshops. The way is to attend a one-day workshop and see if you think this will help you. There are five main methods in NLP, and one of them is called Anchoring. If you lack confidence in a situation, you use anchoring to find a situation where you did feel very confident, and get into that feeling. Then, you do some easily repeatable action to anchor the feeling. It could be to snap your finger ... |
Improve Your Personal Skills With NLPby Ingrid Preube 11/22/2009 Excellence is the keyword towards success in this world of extreme competition. Let it be a company executive or a self-practitioner, nobody is free from the world of competition. If you want to climb the ladder of achievement, you need to show amazing performance in your field. Otherwise you will stay where you have started years before. If you are prepared to face the competitions in this world, and want to be successful in your career, you can take on the option of joining a Neuro Linguistic Program, which is extensively known as NLP. To perform well in any area, you need to coordinate your thoughts, feelings and activities in a very good way. NLP helps you to do that. In additions from the NLP training, you will be able to know more about the activities of people who have succeeded in your field. NLP is not just a training program; it is a technology for personal accomplishment. Hence you need to make sincere effort to understand the modeling coming under this technology. Personal accomplishment will lead you to achievement and thus NLP becomes a ladder towards your success. In a profession it is very important to create decent connection with your coworkers and subordinates. The same is applicable in personal life too. Then the success comes to us by itself. Understanding the thoughts of your coworkers and react to them with an efficient way will surely lead you to achievement. The people around you, is considered as the most essential point in case ... |
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